It must be said that most individuals at my age are not mature enough to be married anyway (myself included).
This perhaps can also be blamed in part on society, but that doesn't make it not true.
Take that into account with not being equipped, and most of us should probably just chill out about love. Our time will come, and there are things we could and should be worrying about in the meantime (i.e. our walk with God, our family, our job, our grades... our room....)